Yep: Obama Is Crediting Michelle With Changing His Mind on Gay Marriage

On Tuesday I wrote at The Nation that President Obama has been preparing for years to credit Michelle for helping him evolve on gay marriage. Why? Male Democrats love to ascribe their more progressive "private" opinions to their wives.

Anyhow, I was right! ABC:

Roberts asked the president if First Lady Michelle Obama was involved in this decision. Obama said she was, and he talked specifically about his own faith in responding.

“This is something that, you know, we’ve talked about over the years and she, you know, she feels the same way, she feels the same way that I do. And that is that, in the end the values that I care most deeply about and she cares most deeply about is how we treat other people and, you know, I, you know, we are both practicing Christians and obviously this position may be considered to put us at odds with the views of others but, you know, when we think about our faith, the thing at root that we think about is, not only Christ sacrificing himself on our behalf, but it’s also the Golden Rule, you know, treat others the way you would want to be treated. And I think that’s what we try to impart to our kids and that’s what motivates me as president and I figure the most consistent I can be in being true to those precepts, the better I’ll be as a as a dad and a husband and hopefully the better I’ll be as president.”

It would have been a more historic moment if Obama hadn't also reaffirmed states' rights to decide the matter on their own. Here's hoping he can "evolve" on that, too — since I don't believe he truly believes it, just like he was never really "personally" against gay marriage.

4 thoughts on “Yep: Obama Is Crediting Michelle With Changing His Mind on Gay Marriage

  1. BobN

    How does a President reaffirm a non-existent state right?

    Show me a state that can pick and choose which members of the armed forces stationed at its bases are married and which aren’t.

    You’d have to go back before Loving v. Virginia to find an example.

  2. johnabo

    Good point BobN.

    Also, he doesn’t seem to ascribe the “change” to Michelle. Just to include her as another person who considered the same metrics. But you’re right that she’s used in his explanation to privatize the opinion.

    Thanks, Dana!

  3. Jim

    Except he didn’t credit her with the decision. He answered yes to a question about whether she was involved.

  4. Danny

    He also credits the influence of his children.

    I cannot find in the video where he reaffirmed states’ rights. What is the exact quote?


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